Today’s dreamer finds himself being more cautious
than his circumstance merit. His dream
offers a perfect metaphor for his habit of anticipating problems and stalling
himself on the brink of success, instead of pushing himself toward his own
goal.
Dear Carolyn,
My parents raised me to be a hard worker. I’m independent and get along well with just
about everyone. I am humble. I have never been what my mom would call a ‘showboat.’ I keep my head down and do good work and it
has paid off over time. Now there’s a
position open that I really want and a couple of my coworkers want it too. To my way of thinking, they are behaving badly by tooting their own horns all the time and trying to get the boss’s
attention. It makes me nervous though
because I hope to be noticed too. But I know
the promotion will come to me if it’s meant to be.
After a stressful week at work I dreamed that I was traveling
up a long slow grade toward a hill that would take some ‘oomph’ to get
over. I kept checking my rearview mirror
because I could see a car in the distance.
I couldn’t make it out very clearly, but I thought it might be the
highway patrol. I started to worry that
I would get a speeding ticket. So I
slowed down just before the crest of the hill and my car stalled.
Is this bad news for the promotion I want?
Signed,
Hopeful Things Will Go My Way
Dear Hopeful,
Your dream doesn’t carry bad news for you, but it
does bring an admonition.
It places you in a scenario that reflects your
progress at work over the years – a long, slow, steady climb. And now you are facing a hill that may
require a bit more horsepower if you want to clear it.
But instead pushing yourself forward, you keep
looking back at that internal highway patrol that tells you to slow down, use
caution. It is far enough in the
distance that you cannot even be sure it’s the ‘law’ or that you’ll be punished
for the push you need to get over the top.
But it slows you sufficiently to keep you from rising over the crest of
the hill – reaching the promotion you seek.
You dream is playing out for you what could come to
pass if you keep looking backward and slowing down instead of rising to the
occasion at hand. A person in your
circumstance can ‘toot his own horn’ without blasting away his natural
humility. There are classy ways to promote yourself.
Get your talking
points together, Dear Dreamer, and let the boss know you deserve the
promotion. Otherwise you may stall out
and see a blowhard pass you by.
Good luck and Sweet Dreams to You!
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